We see the sideways glances. The knowing looks. The murmered hesitations. We know what you are thinking. When shane and i negotiated this second attempt at reconciliation we knew people would not approve. "Why?" They would ask. The why is simple. We love each other. We always have. I don't need to go back and tell you about the before. Before when we were married. Before when we tried to reconcile the first time. None of that matters in this instance. In this instance we are giving it our best shot. And, know what, we are having a pretty damn good time doing it. I like calling him my boyfriend. Being together is a lot easier than not being together. It's kind of simple. Be nice to each other, be honest with each other, want to be together and find each other super hot.